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	<title>Conspiracy Of Mediocrity &#187; How To</title>
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		<title>Writer&#8217;s Block &#8211; Causes, Symptoms and Solutions</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 16:21:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Declan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At its simplest Writer's Block is defined as "a phenomenon involving the temporary loss of ability to write." Having battled Writer's Block for 19 years I can tell you from personal experience that such a simple definition does not do the phenomenon any justice.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At its simplest Writer&#8217;s Block is defined as &#8220;a phenomenon involving the temporary loss of ability to write.&#8221; Having battled Writer&#8217;s Block for 19 years I can tell you from personal experience that such a simple definition does not do the phenomenon any justice.</p>
<p>Writer&#8217;s block can have many causes and many symptoms. To mis-quote Leo Tolstoy all happy writers are happy in the same way; every blocked writer is blocked in their own unique way.</p>
<p>Some causes of block stem from creative problems within an author&#8217;s work itself. Or a writer may simply run out of inspiration. Other writers take on a project that is misconceived, or beyond the author&#8217;s experience or ability complete. with the result that they end up being totally out of their depth.</p>
<p>The symptoms of writers block vary from the stereotypical staring at a blank page unable to think of a single idea, to the opposite extreme where a writer has so many &#8220;good&#8221; ideas that they are unable to focus on just one for fear of losing all the others.</p>
<p>However if it means that you are not producing any finished, completed works then you are suffering from writer&#8217;s block. Regardless of how many words you are writing, how many story plots you are devising, or how many brilliant ideas you are having.</p>
<p>In my own case the root cause of stem from my own insecurities, self doubt and anxiety. Theses feelings have been the root of both extremes of writers blocks that I have wrestled with over the years.</p>
<p>Writer&#8217;s blocks may also be produced by the circumstances of a writer&#8217;s life or career: physical illness, depression, the end of a relationship, financial pressures or a sense of failure can all lead to writer developing block.</p>
<p>For professional, or would-be professional, writers the pressure to produce work may in itself contribute to a writer&#8217;s block, especially if they are compelled to work in ways that are against their natural inclination i.e. too fast or in some unsuitable style or genre.</p>
<p>And in other cases, writer&#8217;s block may also come from feeling overwhelmed by a previous big success, with the writer feeling unbearable pressure to find something to equal their previous success.</p>
<p>There are many solutions for writer&#8217;s block.</p>
<p>For writer&#8217;s block caused by pressure better work organisation and time management can be of enormous benefit. A good support group such as a critique group or writing workshop can help with writing exercises and motivational support. But for more difficult cases an individual consultation with an experienced writing coach can be invaluable.</p>
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		<title>How-To be Successful</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 14:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Declan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finding your passion, your reason for existing is the key to success. You have to make your own meaning to your own life.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finding your passion, your reason for existing is the key to success. If you don&#8217;t feel your own passion, you&#8217;ll be driven by what other people want, not what you really want. Even though you might be successful in the eyes of others, you will never be truly satisfied within yourself.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t tell you how to be successful. And I can&#8217;t judge if you are successful or not. Only you can decide to be successful. And only you can determine what success means to you. And only you can achieved your success.</p>
<p>You have to look into your own hart and be true to your own passion.</p>
<p>You have to make your own meaning to your own life.</p>
<p>You have to live your dreams.</p>
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		<title>How To Become an Early Riser</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 15:40:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Declan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How To Become an Early Riser - External alarm clocks or internal habits?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>External Alarm Clocks or Internal Habits.</h2>
<p><a href="http://www.dumblittleman.com/">Dumb Little Man!</a> had a recent post <a href="http://www.dumblittleman.com/2009/12/wake-up-five-ridiculous-alarm-clocks.html">Five Ridiculous Alarm Clocks</a> which I found both amusing and intriguing. Intriguing, because the geeky nerd inside me loves technology and gadgets and the unusual application of such things. Amusing because as someone who spent decades getting out of bed late and being the guy in the office who was always late for work, I know that such crazy alarm clocks are only effective for a short while, if at all.</p>
<p>Often we seek &#8220;easy&#8221; solutions to our problems from our external world, an elaborate alarm clock to wake us in the morning, rather than the &#8220;hard&#8221; solution of changing our internal view of the world, or simply reprogramming a habit. But the &#8220;easy&#8221; solution is very seldom permanent and the &#8220;hard&#8221; solution is usually easer in the long run.</p>
<p>Most of us think that some people are naturally early risers and some of us like to stay up late, &#8220;Larks&#8221; and &#8220;Owls&#8221; as my Mother used to say. But in reality rather than being deeply embedded aspects of our personalities staying up late at night or getting up early in the morning are simply habits that we have picked up as we went along.</p>
<p>And like all habits getting out of bed is an easy one to reprogram once you know how. It is no good just making a firm resolve to get up early, because our habits are controlled by our subconscious mind and when your alarm goes off in the morning you will preform your usual habit and not any new habit you may thing you want to do.</p>
<p>So how do you make a habit then? Repetition. Habits are formed by repeating the same actions over and over until we do them automatically. Until the subconscious mind takes over and we perform the actions with out any conscious effort. So that is what we need to do in order to make a habit of getting out of bed once the alarm goes.</p>
<p>Like <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ivan_Pavlov">Pavlov with his dogs</a> we will create a conditioned response so once your alarm rings you will be up and out of bed before you can even think of pulling the covers over your head and hitting the snooze button.</p>
<p>It is best to pick a time when you don&#8217;t have to set your alarm clock for a couple of days. Because having your alarm go off in the morning and not get up is going to reinforce the old habit and break the new habit before it has a chance to take complete hold.</p>
<p>What we want to do is recreate as closely as possible the conditions that normally exist when you want to get up in the morning. And then perform the action we want to become a habit, that is getting out of bed when the alarm rings.</p>
<p>Pick a time, not too late in the evening, we don&#8217;t want you to fall asleep for real, when the light is about the same as it is in the morning. Got to your bedroom. Get undressed put on your PJ&#8217;s, or stay naked, however it is that you normally sleep. Set your alarm for a few minuets from now and get into bed. Take a deep breath, roll over and snuggle up.</p>
<p>When your alarm goes off: <em>first </em>get out of bed <em>then </em>turn your alarm off, take a deep breath, stretch, touch your toes and go into the bathroom, or kitchen if you need your coffee before you do anything else. Do what you would normally do when you get out of bed. Or at least pretend to do it. The idea is to create a new link in your subconscious mind bridging the time between being asleep in bed and what you do first thing when you get up.</p>
<p>Next do it again. Go back to bed, set your alarm for five minuets time and snuggle under the bedclothes. Then get out of bed once your alarm goes off, take a deep breath and go into the bathroom. Then do it again and again. Remember the key to making a habit is repetition. You need to repeat it until it becomes automatic.</p>
<p>Half a dozen times three or four days in a row will be enough to reprogram your habit from hitting the snooze button and rolling over to getting out of bed and turning your alarm off. For that day on you will automatically get out of bed when your alarm goes off.</p>
<p>You may feel a little silly doing this. Going to bed just to pretend to get up in the morning might seem strange. Especially if you have to explain what your are doing to your family or a room mate. But do it any way. When you are getting up with your alarm every day both they and you will forget any silliness you might have felt.</p>
<p>Just remember when you are getting out of bed earlier you have to go to bed earlier. Earlier risers still need the same amount of sleep.</p>
<p>Changing you habits is easy once you learn how. Learning how to change your habits is easy. The hard part is wanting to learn how to be in control of your habits, because then you will have to accept responsibility for them and not be able to blame &#8220;that stupid alarm clock&#8221; when you are once again late for work.</p>
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